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[Literary] Great Social Commentary, But Poor Reading Experience The Little Friend by Donna Tartt - Buddy Read with JJ @ This Dark Material!

It seems I can never go a month without a buddy read! And that’s good, because they’re so much fun. This time, me and JJ @ This Dark Material read The Little Friend by Donna Tartt. Tartt is actually one of my favorite authors, although previously I had just read one book by her – The Goldfinch, which is one of my all-time favorites. So I was pretty excited to pick up The Little Friend and I guess I had quite high expectations, but they were dashed completely to the ground. This book made me a very, very sad bookworm. Onto the review… and don’t forget to check out JJ’s review!

Harriet has grown up in the shadow of a horrible family tragedy – her older brother being mysteriously killed by an unknown perpetrator beside their family home. This event has never allowed family life to go on the way it should have, and Harriet grew up in a pretty dystfunctional atmosphere, despite everything looking respectable on the outside. What Harriet wants the most though, is to take control and punish the murderer of her brother – but there is a problem. Having been but a baby when it all happened, she’s got no leads – and it doesn’t seem like anyone would help her either, because nobody wants to dig up painful events that are a decade old. So Harriet embarks on a dangerous endeavour…

Sometimes book titles have a very obvious meaning (like Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone) and others make the reader work a little harder, or leave it up to their interpretation. What did you make of Tartt’s choice of The Little Friend for the title of this book?

Actually… I am utterly baffled. This book has been a disapppointment in many ways, but one of them is the strange niggling feeling inside that either I’ve grown too simple to understand literary, or literary has grown too elusive. I have absolutely NO clue how this name connects to what happened (or didn’t happen.. Yep, this is one of those books.) I mean, I picked up the serpent symbolism (you can read about that in my last question to JJ here!), and I picked up on quite a lot of other things, but the name..? Completely eludes me. If anyone is willing, please clear it up for me.

Without spoiling too much, were you satisfied with how the book ended? Were there any story lines that you wished had more resolution or a different ending point?

Not at all! I was pretty disappointed at the ending. Hate to spoil it, but we never find out what happened to the brother. It’s not resolved in the least. A few other threads also remain hanging. I feel like the book leaves off without really finishing things up for many reasons. This has been one of the more disappointing endings for me in my reading history. (And we’re talking hundreds of books here.)

Tartt includes examples of racism, classism, and a mixture of the two prejudices throughout the town of Alexandria, MS. Did any one in particular stand out to you? Why do you think that one was so powerful?

That was by far one of the best things about this book – and if it wasn’t built so strongly around the murder of Harriet’s brother, I’d think that’s what the book is generally about (hey, maybe it actually is.) Tartt paints a lot of disturbing pictures – children with guns, children abusing black maids, white trash abusing black people, the way the n word is thrown around like it’s the most natural thing… And the coldness of the higher class towards everyone else and the bad things that are happening. It’s all just too sad. Based on what was going on in the book, at first I thought it was set in the 50’s, cause I couldn’t wrap my head around the fact that these attitudes could have made it out of that decade. But it turns out, it’s set in the 70’s or at least the late 60’s. Since I have never been in America, this plainly shocked me. I couldn’t believe the amount of racism and classism so late in the 20th century. No wonder we are only having all this diversity talk now. It’s about time.

We talked about this a little as we read, but: do you think Hely was a very good friend to Harriet? Is his behavior excusable because of his age, or is it more a reflection on the substance of his character?

I think it’s a bit of both. To explain this question to those who haven’t read the book, Hely is a friend of the main character, Harriet, who happens to have something of a crush on her too, which drives him to do things he doesn’t actually want to be doing, just to impress Harriet. He also puts her in dangerous positions several times, basically because he’s just a kid, and Harriet has always been something of an adult. I felt like Hely was a well-written character, because at that age (10-11?), girls are a lot more mature than boys. Plus, he grew up sheltered, while Harriet didn’t. So in a way, yes – it’s his age, but it’s also his situation and his character, the virtues he’s grown up with, which are all very different to the ones Harriet has.

Personally I was fascinated by Danny Ratliff and his development throughout the novel. While he’s certainly made some poor choices in life, he was also born into a difficult situation with few opportunities for escape. Do you think he deserved what ultimately happened to him? Or do you think he was a victim himself?

Again, for those who haven’t read – the Ratliffs are very poor while people who basically cook meth in their trailers for a living. Danny is a classmate of Harriet’s dead brother, and mostly, he’s a victim of his circumstances – always put down by his family and his life realities. I was also fascinated by Danny, and I had quite a few moral quandaries over how to react to what happened in the end. I definitely feel like he was the victim in most cases – growing up like he did, with all the violence, poverty and everything else – I still felt like he was the most sane, or rather, life-conscious, out of all his brothers, and I wanted him to have a chance. Harriet was indeed a very cruel test, the Biblical serpent for him – but in the end, he failed. I would have been sad about what happened, had he not made some very poor choices in the end of the book (the ones related to Harriet, Farish totally deserved what was coming to him) but in the end, it wasn’t Harriet who really punished him – it was his poor last choice. Can’t help being sorry at least a little, still – because Danny was a product of his surroundings. Escaping social conditions like that can be nearly impossible.

Another significant arc through the novel is Harriet’s growth. Did she remind you at all of yourself at that age? And, considering all that she learns while investigating her brother’s death, what do you think her journey has to say about adulthood and life in general?

Actually, I can’t say if she reminded me of myself – I don’t remember myself that well back when I was little. I know I was a whole lot more gullible than Harriet though! (Still am. Boo April Fool’s.) But I really did like her as a character, she was very human, very realistic – not at all smiley and perfect like kids in stories are often, but just a very dark, sad and defined little human. Tartt gives us foreshadowing of what would happen to Harriet in her grown up life, by dropping hints like “and this is the moment Harriet will always recall as the start of her miserable life” (not quoting here, just summarizing), etc. So I feel like the end of the story was sort of a coming of age for Harriet, an initiation into the cruel, cold and lonely world of the adults – one that will remain like that for her forever, because essentially, her life has been one great PTSD, ever since her brother died.

We’ve now both read two novels by Donna Tartt, although the overlap begins and ends with The Little Friend! I’m going to keep this general since I haven’t yet read it myself, but what similarities did you see between this and her third novel, The Goldfinch? Do you think Tartt focuses on similar themes in both books?

I actually noticed a lot of similar trends in these books! The Goldfinch also touches upon the criminal world (and even children, meddling in it), drugs, loneliness, loss of family, being lost and uncared for in general, being on your own even though you’re just a child. However, this is where the similarly ends, I feel. The Goldfinch was an incredible, magical book – if I had to choose ONE book that I could keep, it would be this one. I can say nothing of the sort about The Little Friend. It feels jumbled up, unfinished, needlessly dragged out and just plain old boring in places. Can’t be compared with the experience of reading The Goldfinch – I would literally forget to eat while I was reading that book.

And something fun for the last question: Harriet has four great-aunts, all of them vibrant and distinct. Who was your favorite?

That’s a really tough question! I think I won’t surprise you though – it’s probably Libby. While Edie is an incredibly complex and beautiful character, she’s also… kind of a bitch. She’s also racist and classist. While Libby is caring, loving and self-sacrificing – a wonderful human being. That’s why I can’t help but pick her!

I Have To Talk About The Other Book Though…

I know I didn’t enjoy this one, and that’s sad, but… I have to still tell you that Donna Tartt is an amazing author! I still have one book of hers that I haven’t read, and I keep up the hopes that The Goldfinch was not just a lucky fluke – but rather, a stroke of genius. Which is why I truly recommend you to read The Goldfinch! It’s a sweeping story of loss, coincidence and the criminal world that shares quite a lot of themes with The Little Friend, as I’ve already mentioned, as well as being just as long (or even longer) – but it doesn’t drag or bore you, it’s more like you can’t pry yourself away from the pages! At least, that’s what certainly happened to me. I can only urge you to read it!

The Goldfinch by Donna Tartt

Be sure to head on to JJ’s post to read her take on The Little Friend!

Have you read The Little Friend or anything else by Donna Tartt? And how did you like it, if you have? Maybe you can tell me your take on some of those hidden meanings in this book?

I’m Evelina and I try to blog about books that matter, with a bit of fun there too! Disability and equality will be topics you see a lot, but there’s also a lot of scifi, fantasy and… GIFs. I’m also the proud founder of #ARCsAnonymous.

20 thoughts on “[Literary] Great Social Commentary, But Poor Reading Experience The Little Friend by Donna Tartt - Buddy Read with JJ @ This Dark Material!

  1. So sad to hear you didn’t like this one! I love The Goldfinch and I read The Secret History in February and fell in love with that book as well. I was rather looking forward to reading another Donna Tartt novel, but this one sounds very disappointing!

    I can really recommend The Secret History, though!

    Great review! Have a wonderful week, Evelina!

    1. Yeah, The Goldfinch remains one of my all-time favorites! Well, there was a HUGE gap between this book and the others (Donna Tartt takes a long time between books, I guess) – so I can understand that it’s hard to compare creations that were like a decade apart. So I still have high hopes for The Secret History 🙂

  2. Just got the goldfinch. Its size is quite intimidating. Considering i couldn’t get into the secret history a few years ago. But wanna try it anyway

  3. Ahhh I love literally every single answer you gave!! I did a little searching (because I was kind of hoping you knew the meaning behind the title which is why I asked ) and apparently Harriet’s mom refers to Danny as Robin’s “little friend” at the very end of the book. So that’s as close as I can get?? But I needed Google to even get that far, so I don’t think it was an obvious connection at all…

    And I’m so relieved I wasn’t the only one disappointed in the ending! I really appreciated what Tartt was doing in showing readers a portrait of Harriet’s home and the people in it, but I still wish…well, you know, and I don’t want to negate your spoiler tag 😛

    Ohhh, I wasn’t even thinking of the little hints Tartt dropped about Harriet’s life after the book when I wrote that question. How sad, to think that her life got worse or entered a darker period than we see, because those little hints are definitely scattered through the chapters. It’s also sad to think that Robin’s death will have echoes long past the ordeal with Danny…

    And I agree, Libby was my favorite 🙂 At the beginning I would have chosen Edie because I liked her no-nonsense approach, especially considering how absent Harriet’s mother was. But you’re right, she’s kind of an awful person beneath the manners and poise.

    It’s kind of a shame this book was such a miss, especially since we’ve both loved other Tartt books. I’m going to keep an eye out for The Goldfinch at the bookstore and hopefully balance this read out with something better 🙂 But getting to discuss all the details with you made getting through it so much easier—thank you for inviting me to do this with you! We definitely need to do another buddy read 🙂 ♥
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    1. Thank youuuuu! I can’t believe I am only answering your comment right now, I am so behind 😀

      Ah, that’s why it was “the little friend”! I had suspicions that Danny was his little friend of course, but for it to spark the name of the book? It wasn’t really about Danny.. and just.. agh, it doesn’t connect 😀 well, I can be dense sometimes 😀

      I sometimes wonder, did Tartt even know herself what happened to Robin xD xD xD

      Yes, Donna Tartt really does hint at Harriet’s life troubled by mental illness and PTSD. At least that’s the vibe I got, and truly, it would make sense. Coming out of this unscathed? That would be the Terminator, not a human being. And especially not a child.

      Yeah, I also liked Edie better at first, but then she just got so annoying 😀 and I think the sole reason why Harriet’s mother was the way she was was Edie. Daughters tend to compensate their mothers’ behaviours. I feel like she might have been influenced by Edie’s manner and become the way she was because of that.

      What makes me feel hopeful about the other book I haven’t read is that Donna Tartt usually takes like 10 years between books 🙂 you are probably a different person you were a decade ago. So that’s why it’s hard to compare books that were so far apart between each other, you know?

      And yes, we should do another buddy read for sure, it was a wonderful discussion 🙂

  4. Great review even if the book was disappointing. The novel sounds like it has some difficult elements like enigmatic aspects and an unsatisfying ending. Sometimes I like it when an author pushes a story in odd directions but sometimes it can be very frustrating.

    Having grown up in America in the 1970s and 1980s, I thought that the level of racism coming out of some quarters was shocking.
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    1. Thank you, Brian! I think you might enjoy this book though. You do read a lot of Victorian books, and they are slow too, so you might actually enjoy this one, cause it deals a lot with social issues which is also a thing you sometimes talk about in your reviews 🙂

  5. I love books with good social commentary but based on your review I think I’ll skip this one. I personally CANNOT deal with books that don’t have a satisfying ending. Sometimes with open endings, I’ll wonder about what happened to a character for months on end. Come ON, gimme some closure!

    I also don’t think I could ever read a book with a scary doll face on the cover like that. I would probably freak out in the middle of the night haha.

    1. Yeah, me too – I can’t say I adore open endings either. Some of them are okay, where you can more or less employ your wishful thinking 🙂 but not this one. Especially because it uncovered NOTHING about the start of the story. It was pretty disappointing.
      And I honestly don’t know why the doll face is on the cover 😀 the good thing about reading a book on the kindle is that you don’t really see the cover 🙂

  6. Bah. That’s always the WORST. I feel so let down when the first book I read from an author blows me away and the second one is disappointing. I’m with you, though, I feel like I don’t GET literary fiction so I avoid it now. Is that making it harder and harder for me to get it? Perhaps. But I also think that literary fiction is getting MORE ephemeral just so it elevates itself even more and even fewer people can connect to it. This is how I justify my inability to connect to it. So there!

    Will you read more books by Tartt as they are published?

    It seems like JJ enjoyed the book more than you did, but overall it fell a bit flat. I’m so jealous of all these buddy reads! How do I get on the buddy read short list? 😉 Let’s do this again!
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    1. Yeah! Not awesome feels! That’s why it sucks to start reading from the masterpiece -.- I can still hope she will write something else! She’s still young 😀 I have one more book of hers, but now I’m anxious to even read it. GAH. What if I also don’t like it? :[

      I used to like literary. But I think it was because I didn’t blog, so I read less books and I didn’t have the same critical thinking that I have now when reading, because I need to take notes, or at least mental notes for my reviews. Like, a lot of times I can make out some really important themes or discussions in the book, but… it just doesn’t work for me. I guess what I want from a book must have changed.

      I agree, I think literary IS getting a little bit more ephemeral gradually. I would say the same about art. It’s so hard to invent something new that they’ll go to crazy lengths and risk making it… not make sense. I don’t dig modern art for the simple reason of most kindergarteners being able to reproduce most of it. You can’t say that about literary, but at the same time, often you feel that they might have been high on something when they wrote it. Not the case of this book, this was well thought through, but… just kind of boring 🙁

      But yeah, I’ll definitely be reading more Donna Tartt. And I hope she will publish. Goldfinch was pure genius. If she can write one book like that, chances are she will write more. It’s also her most recent book, and it was published like 9-10 years after the last one. So that’s a lot of time. That might mean a lot for the next book (although I am not happy that it might only come out in five more years, if it does at all, I mean xD

      And can you do a buddy read with me this month? 🙂

    1. Thank you, Stephanie 🙂 yeah, by all means do give it a try. Others seem to have enjoyed it – I saw a lot of good reviews for this one, and the themes are definitely wonderful. And please, please read The Goldfinch! It’s one hell of a ride. It was one of those books that nearly made me forget to eat and drink while I was reading it 🙂

  7. I like how you structured this review. I’m glad I peaked at that spoiler, because if I tried to read this book and ran into that conclusion, it would drive me mad!! I haven’t read this or The Goldfinch, but I did read The Secret History. I remember blazing through it in a day or two, but not remembering anything interesting about it after I finished ^^;
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    1. I know right!! Exactly! Like, it’s so upsetting when you read a whole book with this huge mystery it’s based on, and NOTHING comes up, nothing at all 😀 argh. I know she wanted to write the book ‘in the shadow’ of that disaster, but OMG, it’s not less frustrating because of that. Arghhhhh.
      But I do recommend The Goldfinch, it was an amazing book 🙂 it’s too bad The Secret History didn’t stay with you – The Goldfinch has stayed with me for years!

  8. I am not feeling very hopeful for this book anymore. Like you, I’ve read and loved The Goldfinch. I truly found it to be a magical book. I continued on to read The Secret History which I thought was mediocre at best. While the beautiful writing was there it was quite well, boring and the ending didn’t really go anywhere. I was hoping this would be more wonderful but it sounds like it more so goes along with The Secret History :/ I am sorry you didn’t like it!
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    1. Yeah, if you loved The Goldfinch, don’t expect this to be the same. But when you think about it… Those books were written like a decade apart. It’s kind of hard to compare them because of that – I couldn’t say I am the same person as I was 10 years ago, for example, you know?
      I guess we can keep hoping she will still release another one 🙂

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